Celebrate like there is no next day...

Hope, we all learn at least one lesson which worth a year.
May this new year brings happiness and prosperity to our life...
Advance Happy New Year to all...

ENJOY TONIGHT..!!

Be Millionaire or Don't Think of It...

If I will say, "Men and women should not talk with each other. Women should not come in any public place. Every child should be ready to became soldier to die for his country and women are only to serve men at home and sex." Who ever read this, would think, I am A BIG JERK followed by some words, I can't write them here. So, why this all thoughts are so pathetic? These are the same thoughts, totally normal, 500 years ago...So, why not now? You would say, It's DAMN 500 YEARS, get life, consult good psychiatrist, that time had gone long ago. So, one who thoughts falling back with the time or matching with time, gone long ago, is jerk and psycho.

In today's life, scenario of life is changing everyday. Everyday, condition changes, Everyday one requires more skill and get lesser scope to make mistakes. World is running with the speed of bits and bites. One who falls back, its hard to go on with the wind. Technologies and more sophisticated facilities push the whole world in one giant race. Here the same element has supreme power and that element is TIME. Whose thoughts are advance in time, knows all threat and ready for what is coming, can survive. Ordinary man with ordinary thoughts can't live in this world. Race for surviving will eat that ordinary man. One with sharp mind can predict the possibilities of upcoming situations, change current situation for his comfort and profit and ready to face it FACE TO FACE, have chance to survive, to win.

I am not selling any product here, so I have no intention to frighten you about current situation of the world. What I intend to do is, to tell you, what you are thinking may not be with the flow of present world, If you want to do something in your life, even if you want to survive in better way, you need to think beyond the limit of an ordinary man. All the simple ways to live and survive can not make your life happy, can not make you rich, even it's hard to be a middle class person. Let's talk about one current problem, Onions cost  Rs. 60/kg, just due to so long rainy season! Have anybody predicted this 3 months before? Absolutely NO. I am not telling you to think about Onions, think about future possibilities, every time one can't predict what is coming, so you need to move advance, you need think advance. In this age of advance, one needs to have mind of Sherlock holmes, to see what is coming by current situation. This is what multinational companies doing, they have planning for next 10 to 20 years, that's why they are multinational companies ruled by others, I am or you are not owner of them because we didn't think 10 years advance many years ago. So, If you want to do something better then what would happened, a brighter future for you and your family,think!

Dil Toh Bachcha Hai Ji..!!

"When you came in front of me suddenly that day, my heart was beating so hard, I wanted to talk with you but was completely speechless, my hands were shivering..." Everybody who fall in love had this feeling. And this feeling is so essential, there is no exact expression to convey. In that romantic Environment, everything looks beautiful, air is flavored and eternal rhythm of love surrounds. And if it's monsoon, the season of love and romance, make emotional excitement irresistible. This is the condition a man fall in love and goes mad after his lover. He feels all nature, to support him and there is only one beauty in this world, he can't live without. In this OMG situation, no one have control on his act, no responsibilities can come in between, every wish dissolve in one wish of "TO GET HER".

How to take the perfect decision in this confusing situation, where heart can't listen anything but only her, in situation of, "Dil to bachcha hai ji..!!" When your own mind forces you to act on more then one thought and most probably every thought was leading you on wrong side. Wrong side doesn't mean love's side, but threat side; which let her go away from you or harm your dignity and reputation in eyes of your close-one. I am not considering society, because they will comment on you anyways when people think you did something not suitable. It doesn't mean one should do what he want, without taking care of anybody. It means just don't bound yourself in rubbish thoughts of society. And society will support if you do it in right way.

There is a very transparent difference between love and attraction, at first sight, its hard to differentiate, but if its attraction, you want her badly. Here want her has major role, happiness is dependent on achieving her. Where love includes happiness, want is not THAT IMPORTANT, no doubt, one feels bad when she goes away. But her is important, not achieving her. So it's clear, that we are talking about love, not attraction of today's generation or hungry giant, named PHYSICAL LOVE. So who falls in love and is confused that what to do in this irresistible situation, I have few guidelines...

• She should come to know that you LIKE her (not love) as early as possible, she will notice you automatically, you don't need to try.
• Don't act childish, don't try to be hero, don't irritate, Just highlight, girls like them the most who act naturally.
• Aware of your outlook, it matters a lot.
• You don't have to be sexy, just be smart.
• If she gives signal don't miss it, Start with smile and talk.
• Money is enough, only for trashy, be a good person for a better girl.
• Understand body language and read her eyes, if you afraid then act a little, if she doesn't deny, just propose her.
• Don't hurry for anything, wait for her sign, from kiss to everything.
• An animal can also show physical love, give mental support, love and care.
• If you want to go straight forward, be a gay, fall in love with a man, If you want a girl, you need to understand the emotions and feelings.
• Understanding and trust matter a lot after this point.
• And most important, act wisely for any of above guideline, some decisions are situation dependent. 

If you follow the above key points, you will not face any harsh situations, though you think, you need help or suggestion, you can ask me anything in comments. Don't write any names and no personal information.
There are some barriers in practical life, which can be solved by either wise decision or expert's advise.
So if you think you need, find a love guru.

Successful an happy life

Nowadays  money and fame is much important for everybody. Everybody is running after it but everybody cant convert himself into a billionaire or celebrity or great politician. Very few people in this world made their names. they are less then 0.01% of total population of the world. They did something which other can not. They are successful because they define their goal and they were after it till they achieve it. Other are fail to do so or there goals are not that enough big as world remember it for a long time. So what about these other people?

No doubt they made their names, they got incredible success in their life, just think of everybody wants to be president then what will happen? And what will happen when all country did their best to be that? So life is not just grand success, its just live happily in the way you never regret about anything. So live the life in the way you always wanted to, Some time you rise up, sometime you fall back, but what is importance is you live it in such a way even a little bit can't be waste. There are so many good things in this very world, awaiting to be achieved.

Let encourage your self to achieve that goal which make you happy, where your heart smile. Money is always important but if you follow your heart, you will find money too. Some might get it late, some might find it early but surly comes there where happiness and dedication both exist. This is the essence of living a happy life with desire and responsibility. This is what one need to understand.

Fire Inside

In the time of renaissance, Columbus, vasco da gama and many more sailors who have fire inside their heart to find India, find it anyhow. In the time of dependency of India, Bhagat Singh and Chandrashekhar Aazad exposed the fire for freedom. This fire makes USA, the supreme power to survive against first Germany and then Russia. This fire did so many inventions in our science history. From bill gates and warren buffet, Dhirubhai Ambani and Lakshmi Mittal, gives the example of that fire.

So what is that fire??

Is it courage or its dare to take risk? Is it person's luck or its hard work? Fire can be define as one's firm decision to himself not to seat down, not to calm down and not to run away for any how until and unless his desire fulfilled, no matter how high it is or how dreamy it is. There is no physical relationship between fire inside oneself and reality, what matters is burning desire and dedication.

So how this fire enlighten??

It simply enlighten when one cannot breathe though his face is not in water, it enlighten when primary necessities are not matters anymore for something. It enlighten when one get exited like his love has just touched someone very softly. It enlighten when everything looks unreal without something.

So you need it??

Everybody in this world wants something, which he didn't get yet which is so precious. Who have fire already got that precious but who don't have the fire he just failed. If something in your life, you are still regret or you feel sorry about, and if you want for one's push for your fire. Let me tell you the secret, don't wait, you are the push for yourself. You are that one what you waiting for, if you can’t do that for you, how can others?? And you know, still you can do it but you just don't try to do that due to some fear or circumstances, then this is the time. This is the time to fire up. This is the time to rise your soul, to achieve what you want. If not today than when?? THIS IS THE TIME.

Change - to be succeed

What if human doesn't have any difference form animals?
What if human doesn't have thumbs, fingers and the most important asset... BRAIN?

We are different because our forefathers felt need TO CHANGE; to survive in better way. Animals are also living, they are living differently. And that's why we call them "animals". Life is not just living... but it's living in better way - each day.  No doubt people like to stay in comfort zone, doesn't matter it squeeze them for long long time.
Well, it’s not wise to be there, it’s better to come out from comfort, it too; will became familiar soon. Generally, people can't leave that illusory comfort zone. Who dare to change and increase their sight, always get success. There are no simple rules to be successful but there are certain things which differentiate wining and loosing.

Change is property of successful people. There is no domain for change; it can be physical, mental, intellectual, economical or anything else. You have seen, mobile companies are getting continuously changing their models and technologies... just to be better. When there is competition, change is necessity, NOT TO BE BETTER BUT TO SURVIVE and who changed more - have success. Everybody feel fear, when they leave "illusory comfort zone", but who chase the wind and go through it, win the game and get success. That’s what ‘Mountain Dew’ says, that's all - what's needed. There is only one way to overcome your fear and that’s your burning desire. When it becomes more powerful than your fear, you will not afraid anymore, you will not care anymore, you will ACT. And that’s why change always comes at the edge not on the plain surface. That’s not our fault to change at edge, that’s nature's nature. That’s what ‘The Day The Earth Stood Still’ says. But there is a problem to change on the edge and problem is..., “it’s so difficult!!”. It's sharp, not smooth, it want more desire from us to be with it, one who doesn’t have enough, is thrown out. This is what we are afraid of, to be thrown out. If you don’t want that, you need to change DAILY and CONTINUOUSLY. Regular change can lead anybody to achieve his goal without much risk.